Because your legacy still matters—even when love ends later in life.
Divorce is rarely simple, but when it happens later in life—what’s often called a gray divorce—the concerns are different. You may no longer be raising young children or managing hectic custody schedules, but the stakes are still high.
One of the most common questions we hear from clients going through a gray divorce is this:
“How can I make sure my adult children’s inheritance is protected?”
It’s a valid concern—and a deeply personal one. After years of working, saving, and building a life, you want to ensure that what you leave behind goes to the people who matter most.
What Makes Gray Divorce Unique?
A gray divorce typically involves couples over 50 who are ending long-term marriages. These cases often include:
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Shared retirement accounts
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Real estate and investment properties
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Inherited wealth or family businesses
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Adult children and grandchildren
Unlike younger couples, there’s no focus on parenting plans or child support—but there is concern about preserving your financial legacy and protecting what’s rightfully yours (and your children’s) in the event of property division.
Can Divorce Impact Inheritance?
Yes, it can. If marital assets are not clearly separated from inherited property—or if estate planning hasn’t been updated—your adult children may end up receiving less than you intended.
Here are just a few examples of what could go wrong:
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Inherited assets were co-mingled with joint accounts, making them subject to division
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Beneficiaries on retirement accounts or insurance policies were never updated
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A new spouse or stepfamily ends up with a share you wanted to go to your children
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Wills and trusts were never revised after the separation
What Can You Do to Protect Their Future?
While every case is different, a few key legal steps can make all the difference:
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Keep inherited property separate from marital assets whenever possible
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Work with your attorney to review estate plans and revise outdated documents
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Establish or update a trust to ensure your wishes are followed
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Make sure your divorce settlement clearly identifies what’s separate vs. marital property
Your Legacy Deserves Protection
Divorce later in life may be the end of a chapter, but it doesn’t have to rewrite the entire story for your children. If you’re in the process of a gray divorce—or considering one—it’s time to plan wisely.
Attorney Veronica Robinson understands the financial and emotional complexities of these situations. She can help you navigate the legal process with clarity, compassion, and a strong plan for the future.
Ready to talk about your next step?
Schedule a consultation today and let’s protect what truly matters—your peace of mind and your children’s future.
